Hello, I’m Joseph Wilkes, a passionate and dedicated wedding officiant with experience in creating beautiful, personalized ceremonies.  I’ve had the honor of officiating my own family members’ wedding, and what a beautiful memory that was for me.

My journey into officiating began when I was asked to perform the ceremony for a dear friend’s wedding.  The joy and fulfillment I felt during that experience inspired me to pursue this path full-time.  I am a certified Minister and Officiant through Open Ministry and continuously seek to improve my craft through ongoing education and training.

I specialize in a wide range of ceremonies, including religious and non-religious weddings.  I believe every couple deserves a ceremony that reflects their unique love story, and I work closely with each couple to ensure their day is exactly as they envision.  A little personal touch:  For every wedding I officiate, I wear a custom bowtie chosen just for you-often inspired by your wedding colors.  Each ceremony has its own one-of-a-kind bowtie, making every celebration as unique as your love story.  It's a small detail, but one that's become my signature.  Whether you dream of a traditional ceremony, a themed celebration, or a beautiful beach wedding, I am here to bring your vision to life.

Don’t just take my word for it – here’s what some of my past couples have to say:

“Joseph was amazing!  He made our ceremony so special and personal.  We couldn’t have asked for a better officiant.” – Violet & Parker

“Joseph, thank you for creating such a heartfelt and memorable ceremony.  Your words truly captured the essence of our love and made our special day even more extraordinary.” – Victoria & Miles

I am available for weddings throughout the year and would love to be a part of your wedding day with my custom bowtie.  I specialize in performing weddings in Monterey County.  I am also available to perform weddings in other destinations throughout California.  Feel free to reach out to me at:  thebowtieofficiant@gmail.com to discuss your wedding plans.